Counseling & Coaching

I offer counseling and coaching internationally via phone and Skype, as well as my Portland Oregon office, and work with individuals, couples, family members, and groups.

My practice is based in my MA and Diploma in Process Work, certificate training in Open Dialogue, and more than 10 years experience as a mental health advocate. My own healing inspired me to see each person’s pathway as unique and to take a pragmatic, present moment awareness-based approach to what works.

My Approach

As a therapist and coach I collaborate with clients to study how their present situation is constantly changing and inherently creative, and I help them discover and learn without imposing a program or interpretation. I believe we are natural beings and all have the capacity for growth when we listen to and cultivate ourselves. I look beyond disease and deficit models and believe that even in the most difficult distress, the human mind and spirit already know the right way forward — though the path may be for a time obscured or hidden. I help you learn from who you are, not pathologize you as sick: I do not prescribe psychological treatments, label with diagnosis, or treat people as disorders.

I listen to people’s stories about themselves — and focus on how the story is expressed, to notice aspects usually overlooked and bring new energies to bear. My style is dynamic, and I actively involve myself in the work: quiet listening and empathic support are key, and also questioning, experimenting and challenging. I do not program how a session will go but instead use my awareness to follow what emerges. Work with clients may include dialogue, role play, meditation, dreamwork, conflict resolution, movement, and drawing, as we explore the growing edges of change. I have a holistic view and bring in physical health and nutrition as additional options to support clients. You can read what clients and students have said about my work here.

Process Work

My interest in Process Work, called Process Oriented Psychology in Europe, began in 1996, and since then I have been deeply involved in this Jungian based, systems- and body-focused method of individual and group facilitation.

Process Work is phenomenological and takes the content of our subjective awareness as unique and meaningful, rather than proceeding by interpretation and program. Process Work is also ecological, and sees each of us not simply as individuals, but as parts of larger social fields and systems, where we play roles and manifest deeper patterns from our dreams and life myths. Therapy is at essence bringing awareness to our place in the deeper dreaming happening through us.

Process Work is a present moment, mindfulness-based and somatic therapy, and body experience is intertwined with everything that happens. This combination of dreaming awareness and attention to the body makes Process Work a powerful way to directly access energy for change. You can read more about Process Work here.

Open Dialogue

I have trained at the Institute for Dialogic Practice with Jaakko Seikkula and colleagues in Open Dialogue, an innovative method based in systems theory that sees human distress not as a problem within the individual but instead as an impasse in social relationships. Open Dialogue brings a person facing challenges together with other actors in their social field to collaborate creatively for solutions and new understandings. Open Dialogue touches the deeper fabric of what it means to be human. We are closely connected to each other, and the threads of any part of us draw on our ties to those around us.

This work often brings together several people into the session, and the addition of multiple voices can add new dynamism and fresh perspectives.  Co-therapists can be invited to join for additional depth in the dialogue, creating a unique forum where a special kind of listening allows new feelings and creative ideas to come forward. You can learn more about Open Dialogue here.

Psychosis, Emotional Crisis, and Mental Diversity

I have extensive experience working with “madness” and experiences labeled as psychosis, including bipolar and schizophrenia. I help clients and those close to them understand powerful emotions, voices, paranoia, isolation, manic states, and mental extremes not as symptoms of broken brains but as potentially creative and meaningful parts of ourselves that make sense when seen in context. I do not diagnose people as disorders, offer medical advice, or provide psychological treatment. Instead, I believe in mental diversity: each of us is different, and in a complex human world we are all on a continuum where there is no real standard of “normal.” Emotional crisis may be difficult and chaotic, but it is always there for a reason and carries messages that need to be listened to.

Madness is a natural adaptive response to the context and circumstances where people find themselves: what gets called “psychosis” is not a disease or problem within the individual, but a mysterious break in social relations and a desperate search for a way forward. Even when holistic health can offer support, the inner meaning of suffering remains. Psychosis usually reflects conflict that needs to be addressed: conflict within families, in society, and inside each of us. This breakdown, if responded to with optimism and support, can lead to new life options and become a positive and restorative breakthrough. While I am not against medical treatment, the use of psychiatric medications, diagnostic labels, and hospitalization carries a great risk making things worse. My work for alternative approaches to psychosis has been widely recognized in the US and internationally, including Newsweek magazine and the New York Times, and I have spoken and taught on mental health system reform internationally.

Social Oppression, Rank, and Abuse

People come to therapy for many reasons, but share the common experience of powerlessness. What is power? Power exists in institutional contexts, in our relationships, and in our own psychological resources as an experience of control and freedom we are having in the present moment. All emotional struggles are intimately bound with power, social oppression, and rank, and when therapists ignore the power relations surrounding us, they can end up reinforcing the status quo and blocking change.

I help clients reclaim power they may not be aware of, use their power more wisely in the world,  and overcome their experiences of low rank and powerlessness. I have worked extensively with individuals facing social and political marginalization, including abuse survivors, queer and transgendered people, homeless, people of color, people diagnosed with severe mental illness, and  people struggling with poverty and addiction. I also work with individuals who have social and institutional privilege learn to understand, claim and use their power wisely, and discover the inner experiences of powerlessness often hidden underneath all privilege.

Relationships, Communication, Conflict, and Intimacy

When we become close to other people we see new sides of ourselves reflected in the other. Companionship and sexuality entangle us in dynamics that reveal power differences, communication styles, high dreams, trauma histories, and life myth. Intimate relationships awaken creative potential and reveal unexpressed emotional truth – and can also be a source of great suffering. When held with awareness and explored more deeply, intimate partnership is a powerful vehicle for growth and learning.

I work with couples and people in close relationship to find purpose and meaning in their misunderstandings and conflicts, and discover hidden potentials in why they have come together. In sessions I might hold down a single statement to take it deeper, bring in unnoticed body signals and movements, help each side switch roles with the other, and encourage much deeper listening and response to what is said. I am especially interested in how hidden dynamics of power, rank, and woundedness influence our ability to truly connect with each other, and I bring in my awareness of social inequality and oppression to understand the complexities of personal relationships.

Medication Education and Coming Off Medications

Since 2001 I have supported people around the world to become better informed round the complicated issues of psychiatric medication. Our society has left too many decisions in the hands of medical doctors alone, and while I am not a prescriber and do not offer medical advice, I help educate individuals to make wiser and more confident decisions about their treatment options. I am attentive both to the side effects of psychoactive substances, and to the meanings, fears, and hopes that are involved. While not anti-medication, I have a harm reduction perspective and take a very cautious approach to the risks of pharmacology, and often working with people to reduce and come off medications.

You can learn more about my method in my Harm Reduction Guide to Coming off Psychiatric Drugs.

Family Recovery

When an individual goes through extreme emotional distress the entire family is involved. Parents and siblings, friends and partners feel both powerless and an urgent need to help. I have worked with family members seeking ways forward beyond traditional diagnosis and institutionalization: I approach families as unique shared systems with deep mythic histories and powerful potential for growth.

Often by changing one aspect of the system other aspects can transform: the “identified patient” may only reflect the larger context. Social oppression, trauma, and historical forces also play a powerful role, as families seek new ways of understanding themselves beyond accepted norms. In addition to Process Work, I have studied the Open Dialogue and Dialogic Practice approaches with Dr. Jaakko Seikkula and Dr. Mary Olson at the Mill River Institute. I am also inspired by how we are re-inventing family life, as we all learn to define intentional family for ourselves and nurture more authentic social connections and greater personal freedom.

In order to access the greatest potential for change, my work with families draws on the Open Dialogue approach and can include co-therapist, where therapists share our experiences with the family in a broader dialogue. This “reflective process” is a powerful way to deepen the family’s awareness of its own resources and ability to grow, while making the role of professionals more transparent and part of a collaborative and mutual process.

I am also co-founder of Practice Recovery, and online training institute that offers Family Recovery online courses, which I often recommend to family members seeing to learn more about how to support someone struggling with distressing experiences labeled psychosis. You can find out about these classes at www.practicerecovery.com.

Community Development

Growth and change do not take place primarily in the individual. Groups and the community are the heart and soul of who we are and how we heal. For more than ten years I have been a community development worker creating forums for collective learning and social change around emotional distress. My emphasis is on nurturing mutual support and resilient communities that have the capacity to respond to challenges and take care of each other in more humane and sustainable ways. In Portland I am Director of Portland Hearing Voices, which offers support groups, educational events, and training; am on the Board of the Mental Health Association of Portland working to improve professional and city responses to people in crisis; and I am host of the syndicated FM interview show Madness Radio. I frequently travel to communities around the US and internationally as part of my social change work for collective liberation.

About Payment

I charge going rates for private therapy and coaching sessions. Because my work does not include diagnosis or mainstream psychological treatment, I don’t accept insurance. I often have sliding scale openings to accommodate limited incomes. do my best to remain flexible with payment. I also work to make groups, classes, and community events widely accessible.